Motivational Monday: Reclaiming a Marriage After an Unplanned Pregnancy

This past week, our daughter spent some time with her grandparents. She played with her cousins, consumed massive amounts of sweets, and stayed up late watching her beloved Disney movies. Basically, she had a blast. Just as importantly, the Hubby and I had some much-needed alone time. By mharvey 75 using the Creative Commons License Our… Read More Motivational Monday: Reclaiming a Marriage After an Unplanned Pregnancy

My Monday Motivational Moment: Please Stop Telling Me To Smile!

Smile! Cheer up! You look soo serious. This simple statement command, usually from the same source, infuriates me. My wish list of smart comebacks include: -No, and don’t tell me what to do. -What are you, the f^cking smile police? -Mind your f^ing business. Or even better…I would, but I forgot my pearls, apron and… Read More My Monday Motivational Moment: Please Stop Telling Me To Smile!

Springing and Sinking into Motherhood

I place my hand on my sister’s pregnant belly. My niece/nephew’s kicks instantly transport me to my pregnancy days—of utter excitement—when I first felt my baby’s movements—and heartbreaking fear—of the seemingly impossible task ahead. I offer countless pointers—on baby slings and baby toys, from breastfeeding to tummy-time. I recount the first time I held her,… Read More Springing and Sinking into Motherhood

Body Imperfect: Real Beauty and Anti-Eating Disorder Ads

My sister recently directed my attention to a 1998 ad campaign from The Body Shop showcasing “Ruby,” a pleasantly plump anti-Barbie, intended to challenge stereotypes of beauty. So rather than inundate you with my feminist rantings about how the beauty industry encourages low self-esteem, poor self-image and eating disorders among women…or how over-sexualized images of… Read More Body Imperfect: Real Beauty and Anti-Eating Disorder Ads

La Fuerza

I come from a long line of strong women. We are proud and stubborn, hard-working and family-first, sentimental and defensive. We are a puzzle. Some rights reserved by lanuiop I asked my husband once, Am I tough? He quickly responded, No. Arguing pursued, as my feelings were evidently hurt. Weakness was not an acceptable trait… Read More La Fuerza